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I?m married with 2 children. We moved to this new house in California in Feb 2001. The previous owners were a couple with 4 children and were in the process of divorce (or already divorced). Our relationship is getting worse. My husband thinks we can?t be together. Physically together might be ok, but not mentally gets alone. He has no desire to try anything to make up our differences. Our life as boring as a rock. There is no 3rd party in our relationship (so far). I was born on 1/26/1963 and my husband was born on 10/22/1958 in Taiwan. There are a couple of areas I suspect to have problems. 1. Our house is facing South West. 2. Our front double door is facing the dinning room window which can open to the back yard. But We do have wood shutter covers the window. 3. Our garage door is facing South West as well and the single door gets in to the house is facing straight to the French double door to the back yard. There is a big tree right outside the French door about 10 feet away. 4. Our bed is against the wall and the headboard is on North West side. 5. Opening the double door to the master bedroom is opening to the bed, but not directly (opening to the North or North East side) Is there any advice to improve our relationship or save our marriage? Thank you very much in advance.