Posted December 28, 201014 yr Hi People, I am new to this forum, as u can see. And I have been scouring ard for help regarding my problem. I am19 years old this yr and since young, I do not have close friends. My friendships often result in failure (become enemies or strangers) after 2 years.I feel lonely and is always alone.I wish to know why. Is it bcos my past life karma or my bazi?Will be happy if u can give me some advice on my situation. ThanksOn a side note, some have said that I am destined to be alone as I have lonely stars My birthdarte are as follow:13/July/19911400 Singapore Time Thank and regardsPanta
Posted March 3, 201114 yr Quote On 12/28/2010 7:23:11 AM, Anonymous wrote:Hi People, I am new to thisforum, as u can see. And Ihave been scouring ard forhelp regarding my problem. Iam19 years old this yr andsince young, I do not haveclose friends. My friendshipsoften result in failure(become enemies or strangers)after 2 years.I feel lonelyand is always alone.I wish toknow why. Is it bcos my pastlife karma or my bazi?Will behappy if u can give me someadvice on my situation.ThanksOn a side note, somehave said that I am destinedto be alone as I havelonely stars My birthdarte areas follow:13/July/19911400Singapore Time Thank andregardsPanta Hi Qu P,I'm not an expert in Ba Zi etc but I couldn't help not responding to your post regarding yourpresent dilemma (or a perceived one). While I sympathise with your sense of loneliness, I believe taking a bit of advise from this very old chinese adage might help you to see things from a differentperspective. "Our existence is based on the 5 principles - 1. Heaven Luck 2. Destiny 3. Fengshui4. Karma ( present and past) 5. Effort."I believe EFFORT is the most important as exerting or lack of it could change the outcome of the other 4 principles! Therefore I wouldn't blame the lack of friends on bad Ba Zi or bad Karma.Perhaps you could try this very useful tip my 13 yr old sontold me he usessince he was 10yrs old with great results! He sets himself a target of being the first one to say hello and extend his hand of friendship to the first 10 students he meets( but doesn't know) at the beginning of a schoolyear. Today he has a very large group of friends and incidentally the very close one are the oneshe acquired through his system! So give it a go and good luck!
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