Dear Master,

With regards to Ba Zi element compatibility between two persons, if both belong to weak water element, are they considered incompatible match?

Best regards

These are some considerations:
1. On the contrary: weak water + weak water is like having a "larger" pool of water.
2. Of course; it is is not the same as having say a partner that is a STRONG METAL element. As under the productive cycle of the five elements; it is aways better to use an element preceding the weak element to significantly improve it.
3. Thus; an excellent match would be a STRONG METAL person to help the weak water person grow.
4. However; if we look at the lowest common denominator:
4.1. A weak water person "needs" : Metal and water.
4.2. Thus if both parties are weak water; the share the same or similar favourable elements: Metal and water.
5. Contrast this to a STRONG FIRE partner of say a weak water person. This two combinations are considered as not suitable. Same as a STRONG WOOD person with a weak water person. This is equally not auspicious combination.
6. Look at it this way:-
6.1. Let's say a person is a weak wood person. Of course the favourable element of a weak wood person is water and wood.
6.2. However, just think of a weak wood person as a small tiny plant. What helps to make it grow is by adding adequate amounts of water. Of wood is acceptable; but patching the plant with more wood is so-so. As compared to having water to fuel it to grow. (Of course; a strong wood would then later use it's roots to crush the soil ... etc.. this is another point altogether!)

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On 5/1/2011 7:46:18 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Dear Master,
With regards to Ba Zi elemen4t
compatibility between two
persons, if both belong to
weak water element, are they
considered incompatible match?
Best regards

Hello Master,
Sorry to bump this up.
i am born in may 1982 (water, from what i check)
my partner is sept 1991(metal, from what i check too)
when i do a love compatibility, the result is not so good.
The result is :
You have to work it out. It might be great in the beginning but after
the first emotions end you have to put a lot of effort keep it going.
i wonder can our elements strengthen our bond?
Regards.