Hello Cecil,
My boyfried is a very weak fire (10%) and I'm a very strong water (70%). Every time we're together, his sinus/congestion problem becomes very bad. I feel like I'm drowning him or putting his weak fire out. I know the wood element is the binding element, but how do we apply this wood element to better our situation? His house is made of natural cedar wood and so all the external walls are wood walls, but this wood house doesn't seem to help us. Do we need to get a wood bedframe, all wood furniture etc..?
By the way his house flying star shows his bedroom has two stars 2. I intend to hang a 6 coin with red string to counter the stars 2. However, I still don't think the star 2 is the main problem because his sinus didn't bother him much until he met me. At the beginning, we thought he was alergic to my dogs, but now that I know I'm a strong water and he is a weak fire, I think I'm the cause of his sinus problem. Please suggest some ideas on how we can apply the wood binding element.
Thank you again for your help.
Hoa

Dear Hoa Luong,
Personal relationships can be strong. And binding element e.g. in the home may not be able to help much.
In your boyfriend's case, try to enhance personal self e.g. wear more green or brown colours. And for yourself, you can reduce your water e.g. wearing red. This should help abit.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 3/25/2002 4:54:00 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Hello Cecil,
My boyfried is a very weak
fire (10%) and I'm a very
strong water (70%). Every
time we're together, his
sinus/congestion problem
becomes very bad. I feel like
I'm drowning him or putting
his weak fire out. I know the
wood element is the binding
element, but how do we apply
this wood element to better
our situation? His house is
made of natural cedar wood and
so all the external walls are
wood walls, but this wood
house doesn't seem to help us.
Do we need to get a wood
bedframe, all wood furniture
etc..?
By the way his house flying
star shows his bedroom has two
stars 2. I intend to hang a 6
coin with red string to
counter the stars 2. However,
I still don't think the star 2
is the main problem because
his sinus didn't bother him
much until he met me. At the
beginning, we thought he was
alergic to my dogs, but now
that I know I'm a strong water
and he is a weak fire, I think
I'm the cause of his sinus
problem. Please suggest some
ideas on how we can apply the
wood binding element.
Thank you again for your help.
Hoa