Cecil,If my husband is N.E. House and I'm N. House our best sleeping directions our opposite ,where is the best place for us to sleep? At the present time our master bedroom is in the S.E.corner of our house and we our sleeping heads south east.the bedroom is top floor of our home over our home office.My husband is the breadwinner of the family. Our living room is the N.W. corner bottom floor,We have slep there on a pull out sofa but it is not as comfortable .Iwould appreciate any suggestions you have on this matter .We were told once before that the N.W. corner of the home is the Mans position (husband) head of household,good for your business. Thank You So Much Diana

Dear Diana,
In my opinion, most of us, would face the same sort of problems. Especially if a house has not being looked into, prior to the purchase.
Sometimes, even if we activately seek to find a good house, eventually, the bedroom may not be suitable. Or, one of the partners is either a East or West group persons.
From the many cases, I personally feel that, no matter how, one should get the Shapes and Forms correct in the first instance.
The overriding consideration is based on the Shapes and Forms Feng Shui. And once this is good both external and internal, it is better than trying to fit oneself in a `Eight House' dilemma.
So far, there is no basis (from what I know) that NW belongs to the male domain. Maybe persons, the person trying to interpet the Trigram for that sector is over zealous. Even so, there is no basis in practial Feng Shui to use this methodology.
Sometimes, try as we might, we cannot literally forgo staying or sleeping in sectors that are there. For the breadwinners, it is better for them to occupy the master-bedroom.
If the Eight House theory is not optimium for oneself or for the family, it is but one of the theories relating to Feng Shui of the home. If the sectors are not good, than, we look at both Shapes and Forms (good placement of the bed) and Flying Star to help reduce any imbalances at that sector.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 6/27/2002 2:27:00 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Cecil,If my husband is N.E.
House and I'm N. House our
best sleeping directions our
opposite ,where is the best
place for us to sleep? At the
present time our master
bedroom is in the S.E.corner
of our house and we our
sleeping heads south east.the
bedroom is top floor of our
home over our home office.My
husband is the breadwinner of
the family. Our living room is
the N.W. corner bottom
floor,We have slep there on a
pull out sofa but it is not as
comfortable .Iwould appreciate
any suggestions you have on
this matter .We were told once
before that the N.W. corner of
the home is the Mans position
(husband) head of
household,good for your
business. Thank
You So Much
Diana