Hello, I just began researching Feng Shui and I'm absolutely engrossed in it. My challenge however, is finding resources on how to work with total opposites. My husband & I have very opposite directions, colors, etc. and I'm trying to figure out happy mediums for us. Do you have any suggestions? I really, really appreciate any help or advice. We're building our house now so have a bit of leeway in positioning. Thanks so much.

Dear Melissa,
1. Many people would encounter the same problem that you have faced. Especially if one partner is an East House while the other is a West House person.
2. If one is currently finding a new house, then look at the intangible force affecting each spouse at the main entrance and their bedroom.
Go for smoother combinations e.g.: Prosperity vs Irritation or other such combinations as opposed to combinations such as:
Longevity vs death or disaster.
Under Ba Zi Feng Shui, one should consider `binding elements' or elements that can help bind both partners.
For example, Strong Metal person vs Weak Earth person, one should use a binding element e.g. Fire element.
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 9/9/2002 2:55:00 PM, Anonymous wrote:
Hello, I just began
researching Feng Shui and I'm
absolutely engrossed in it.
My challenge however, is
finding resources on how to
work with total opposites. My
husband & I have very opposite
directions, colors, etc. and
I'm trying to figure out happy
mediums for us. Do you have
any suggestions? I really,
really appreciate any help or
advice. We're building our
house now so have a bit of
leeway in positioning. Thanks
so much.