I am trying to build a suitable home for me and my family. My mother and fiancee has the same good directions but they are totally opposite of mines! What shall I do to resolve this...especially if my fiance and I rest in the same room?

Dear Julie,
Realistically these are some guidelines:-
1. You can rest with comfort that: You and your fiancee are not the only ones facing such a "dilemma".
2. Under the Eight House concept: more important considerations are:
2.1 For the breadwinner (often this is the male party); the main door should not be his "disaster" or "death" sector.
2.2 "The Shield"
2.2.1 Under the eight house concept; if say the bedroom is favourable for one spouse but is not favourable to the other:
2.2.2 For example if the bedroom is located at North and is the husband's dead sector while it is the wife's prosperity sector; then the wife sleeps closer to this sector; to "shield" him.
2.2.3 This is considered as one of the basis of the Eight House theory.
2.2.4 It is not like an impratical world where, "HEY!, I am afraid, both of you must live separte lives or live in separate rooms! " This is indeed simply ridiculous thought!
Perhaps, one find day, we may hear of a petition for separation or divorce based on this idea " Because of Feng Shui, we HAVE HAD no choice but live separate lives! Do you think that this is a good excuse to use? Erh? Did you say a Lame Excuse? I agree:)
Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 9/20/2003 11:13:58 AM, Anonymous wrote:
I am trying to build a
suitable home for me and my
family. My mother and fiancee
has the same good directions
but they are totally opposite
of mines! What shall I do to
resolve this...especially if
my fiance and I rest in the
same room?

Dear Master Cecil:
Thank you for your response. I know that I'm not the only one in this scenario. I wasn't sure what the solution was because I heard so many different cures that just didn't make any sense. And of course just because I don't have the same good directions as my fiancee does NOT mean that I'm going to leave him for somebody else that does!! Your advice was greatly appreciated. Have a great day!