Hello. I read a posting that said if two housemate's directions were in conflict, then you should choose what's best for the "breadwinner" to encourage prosperity in the home. My question is what do you do when there are TWO breadwinners?

I don't want tohinder any benefitsmy boyfriendmay be deriving from the currant arrangement and positioning. I'm hoping to learn a way to compensate for aspirational compromises in our home thatwon't threaten his livelyhood. If I work on activating andmaking improvements in the areas I need help in, will it have a negative effect on other people in the household?

I looked up our directional charts and they are almost complete opposites. His excellence = my death = our western front door. I've had a TERRIBLE time securing employment since I moved in here a few years ago. Although I don't make as much money as my boyfriend, we need to both be working to be financially secure. Plus, I'm starting to drive myself crazyfrom being out of work! I would appreciate readingany ideas anyone has about this topic. I'm new to this site, and have just begun learning about feng shui recently so I will soak up your insight like a sponge!

Thank you. Holly

Dear Holly,

Welcome to the forum!

In the last message, posted, I have mentioned that it is good to have a good grasp of all under-ling Feng Shui concepts by using a three-step approach:

1. What is the purpose of the concept
2. What are it's strengths
3. What are it's weakness.

The idea of using Geomancy or meta-physics is based on a Holistic approach involving:

Heaven luck, earth luck (Feng Shui) and human luck.

In addition, Shapes and Forms as well as Flying Star Feng Shui is equally important.

Thus, if the both of you are opposites and given that you are now at a disadvantage, you could explore the application of Shapes and Forms and Flying Star Feng Shui. For ba zi Feng Shui, it has to do with the use of colors and for ba chai or Eight House Feng Shui, you can still apply it e.g. facing direction e.g. for the work area etc...

Warmest Regards,
Cecil

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On 7/21/2004 5:44:05 AM, Anonymous wrote:

Hello. I read a posting that

said if two housemate's

directions were in conflict,

then you should choose what's

best for the "breadwinner" to

encourage prosperity in the

home. My question is what do

you do when there are TWO

breadwinners?

I don't want tohinder

any benefitsmy

boyfriendmay be deriving

from the currant arrangement

and positioning. I'm hoping to

learn a way to compensate for

aspirational compromises in

our home thatwon't

threaten his livelyhood. If I

work on activating

andmaking improvements

in the areas I need help in,

will it have a negative effect

on other people in the

household?

I looked up our directional

charts and they are almost

complete opposites. His

excellence = my death = our

western front door. I've had a

TERRIBLE time securing

employment since I moved in

here a few years ago. Although

I don't make as much money as

my boyfriend, we need to both

be working to be financially

secure. Plus, I'm starting to

drive myself crazyfrom

being out of work! I would

appreciate readingany

ideas anyone has about this

topic. I'm new to this site,

and have just begun learning

about feng shui recently so I

will soak up your insight like

a sponge!

Thank you. Holly