how can we (my husband and I) encourage our 11 year old to come over more often and feel like she belongs in our household? She has her own room, her mother manipulates situations so the daughter always stays with mom. help. my husband and i are trying everything. thanks.

Dear Christine,

Frankly, Feng Shui is by no means a miracle cure for every single situation.

In feng shui the main goal is to attempt to create a harmoious environment so that everyone will feel good. When you feel good, you will feel more relax, sleep better, work better and thus giving you the ability to focus on your career. The only thing here you can do is to ensure that you check the element compatibility between the you/husband and your step-daughter. This will help to reduce some tension between the three. ie a weak wood andweak fire will be in best harmony if you have more Wood (green/brownin the room for example).

Use the compatibility report in the member area. To help you on this. Though the report is listed under the paid report, it works for free report access as well no difference.

Other then that, you will have to use your sincerity and loving care to touch your daughter's heart. Meaning that if you truly show that you care and love her, she will eventually accept you better.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

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On 8/12/2004 9:23:19 PM, Anonymous wrote:

how can we (my husband and I)

encourage our 11 year old to

come over more often and feel

like she belongs in our

household? She has her own

room, her mother manipulates

situations so the daughter

always stays with mom.

help. my husband and i are

trying everything. thanks.