Hi,

According to the analysis, my husband and I have the same birth elements even though we are born on different dates and years. Is it possible???

Also, we have totally incompatible directions (my lucky ones are his unlucky :-). What shall I do??? According whose directions I should arrange my house?

Thank you in advanse.

Hi Anon,

1. If you are referring to two person say having the same element (ie weak water), then the answer is yes it is absolutely possible. In fact it is pretty common. Birth element can only have 10 different possibilities from weak/strong combination of 5 different elements. So very common.

However, though both might have the same birth element, the ba zi luck will be different for the two person unless, the two person is about 60 years apart where there might be a possibility that the same birth chart might occur but very rare.

2. It is very common that two person will have opposite Eight House Chart. ie West is Excellent for one but Spook for the other.

The way to go about doing this is to follow this simple give and take rule:-

a. Ensure the Breadwinner have a suitable house facing (ie Excellent, Prosperity, Longevity, Health), and if possible the same house facing should not fall under your spouse Death or Disaster sector. Spook and Irritation is acceptable.

b. Since the breadwinner has luck from the house, then ensure the spouse get a slightly better room / bedroom sector (ie Excellent, Prosperity, Longevity, Heath), and if possible the breadwinner's bedroom sector should avoid Death or Disaster sector. Spook and Irritation is acceptable.

c. In choosing who should sleep on the Left side of the bed or Right side of the bed. You use the same concept. Try to let the each sleep closer to their best sector, ie say for the breadwinner Left side is Disaster while, Right side is closer to Prosperity, then it is more ideal to sleep on the right side.

As long as you follow this rule, you should be fine. This is call give and take. Since breadwinner get a better house suitability, the spouse to get a better bedroom to compensate for the lack of luck from the house.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research

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On 11/16/2004 4:55:51 PM, Anonymous wrote:

Hi,

According to the analysis, my

husband and I have the same

birth elements even though we

are born on different dates

and years. Is it possible???

Also, we have totally

incompatible directions (my

lucky ones are his unlucky

:-). What shall I do???

According whose directions I

should arrange my house?

Thank you in advanse.