help, i need your urgent advice. i live in a small studio apartment and i cannot do much about my bed placement. i managed to place it on a wall without a toilet behind it but i can see the door on the left side of my bed. is that bad feng shui? i understand that it will affect my love relationship. however, i have enchanced my SW corner to the max? am i doing the right thing? please advise, am desperate and i really want to enhance my marriage luck!!!!

Dear Caroline,

Please see below:-

Quote

On 2/21/2005 1:04:25 AM, Anonymous wrote:

help, i need your urgent

advice. i live in a

small studio apartment and i

cannot do much about my bed

placement. i managed to

place it on a wall without a

toilet behind it but i can see

the door on the left side of

my bed. is that bad feng

shui? i understand that

it will affect my love

relationship.

Based purely from a Shapes and Forms Feng Shui perspective, the way you had placed the bed seems to make practical sense since often there is not much one can place the bed in a small or medium sized bedroom.

For the Chinese, the worst position is to sleep with the legs facing the bedroom door. This is known as "the coffin" position. Where, the "dead" or "deceased" is carried out of a door leg's first.

Otherwise, based on your description, it seems practical.

Quote

however, i

have enchanced my SW corner to

the max? am i doing the right

thing? please advise, am

desperate and i really want to

enhance my marriage luck!!!!

Frankly practising "Sector" Feng Shui is like taking a sugar coated pill

Let's be reasonable. And see some logic, here:

In the past, I mentioned this senario:

Let's imagine that the two of us are interested in dating a colleague in the office. Both of us know "SECTOR" Feng Shui. And according to this "silly Feng Shui book" SW = our romance sector.

I placed9 roses at the SW sector of my office work table. You saw what I had done. And boldly placed 99 roses at the SW sector of your work table.

Quote

have enchanced my SW corner to

the max?

In addition,you have also enhanced yourhome's (room) SW corner to the max?? E.g. 99 roses.

Maybe, you have enhanced to your max but to me, my max could be a room full of 999 roses.

So, I have (secretly) outbid YOU! So, does it mean that I have "won" thiscolleague (girl/lady)?

Instead, whatreally happened??????

Both of us instead of effectively wowing the lady, have lost her!

What happened??

Seemingly while we are wasting ourresources "in the name of Feng Shui",another gentlemen,who had met her at her bus stop; sheltered her from rain and frequently talked to her got THE GIRL!

The morale of the story? D'ONT be too silly in enhancing the SW sector!

Statistically, it also does not make sense! If everyone seems to think that SW is their romance sector and everyone enhance it to their "max" it is not possible for all of them to get THE GIRL!

In my opinion, paying homage to SW is one of the silliest things to do.

In fact, every one can become aFeng Shui book writer and fantasie on a book easily by talking about each direction e.g.

Chapter 1 -North -career sector
.... Chapter 10 - SW - romance sector

In my opinion, we are really paying silly money to people or giving it to people who write such stuffs!

Precisely because such books are easy to write,and so easy to understand..... try it, and see if it really works! GOSH! INSTEAD, DO GET A LIFE!

Warmest Regards,
Cecil