Dear Master Cecil Lee

My husband and I are trying to have a baby and we realized that if I were to conceive in Nov05/Dec05/Jan06. The baby will most likely be deliveredduring the Chinese 7th month next year. Should we avoid this? We are worried thatour baby'sdestiny will be affected if he/she is born in aninauspicious month. Please kindly advise.

Thank you very much for your time and generousity.

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
My husband and I are trying to have a baby and we realized that if I were to conceive in Nov05/Dec05/Jan06. The baby will most likely be deliveredduring the Chinese 7th month next year. Should we avoid this? We are worried thatour baby'sdestiny will be affected if he/she is born in aninauspicious month. Please kindly advise.

Generally, a child's birth date is often less impact by the fact the month is Chinese 7th month or Qing Ming or etc. Each day will create a different luck for the baby. It is very hard to tell you how the luck will be unless you check the ba zi for every day within next year to see which day is better. Even that, different hours will also influence his luck.

Most people would normally worry more like whether the year is good or bad rather than whether the baby will be good or bad based on the a specific month. However, if you are really concerned, of then you might want to consider conceiving a little later just to avoid that month. However, as far as Chinese 7th month or any events is concerned, this is considered a minor issue for a Ba Zi of a child.

It does not mean that those born in Chinese 7th month will have more bad luck than others. It is the day and time that is born that will influence the baby luck.

Since conceiving a child is really something very special. I would rather you just leave it up to nature. It does not mean that you plan for it and it will just happen. Sometimes it might not go exactly as you plan as well.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research.