Hi,

I am actually planning for ROM with my fiance however her father's mother is very ill and seem that she might be leaving (die)this world within these few weeks.

Her dialect is Hainaness and mine is Teochew. May I enquire if it is advisable to have my ROM after the funeral? Else please advise how long should we wait till to be auspicious for my ROM?

Regards,

Kel.

Dear Kel Lin,

Kel Lin wrote:
I am actually planning for ROM with my fiance however her father's mother is very ill and seem that she might be leaving (die)this world within these few weeks.

Kel Lin wrote:
Her dialect is Hainaness and mine is Teochew. May I enquire if it is advisable to have my ROM after the funeral? Else please advise how long should we wait till to be auspicious for my ROM?

Sorry to learn about your father's mother illness.

Generally, under the Chinese tradition and customs. Normally, if a relative past away. Any wedding should take place quickly after 100 days from the deceased. If not you have to wait until after 3 years (this is to cater to the dai xiao). This is typically what most tradiitonal Chinese will follow. Most modern family are generally ok, at least 1 year afte the funeral.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research