Hello. We have just purchased a flat. My spouse and I have conflicting directions.My spouse the the onlybreadwinner.

Main door: NW - best for me; irritation for spouse.

Baloncy door: SE - disastor for me; prosperity for spouse

Bedroom: S - death for me; longevity for him

Sleeping position: SW - longevity for me; death for him

Sleeping position: S - death for me; longevity for him (feet face bedroom door - tomb position)

What should we do? Will closing the main door and keep the balcony doors open help?

Also, my stove faces the kitchen door. Is there a cure?

Thanks for your help.

Edited by Robert:

Here is a link to a new reference post that covers most of the Opposite Kua between Spouse / Family:-

URL: http://forum.geomancy.net/phpforum/article.php?bid=2&fid=4&mid=21124

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
Hello. We have just purchased a flat. My spouse and I have conflicting directions.My spouse the the onlybreadwinner.

This is a topic or question that has been posted time and time again. All you need to do is apply a little give and take when you deal with such opposite or conflicting suitability:-

URL: http://forum.geomancy.net/phpforum/article.php?bid=2&fid=1&mid=21041&new=

Anonymous wrote:
What should we do? Will closing the main door and keep the balcony doors open help?

Firstly, you should confirm your facing direction based on which floor or level you stay in. ielanded property = house facing, (2nd-7th floor) = main door facing, (8th level) = balcony / living room facing, etc

Priority for the house to be suitable to the breadwinner. Then the other person to stay in a suitable bedroom.

1) For the Breadwinner (ie your spouse):-

a) Should have the house in his suitable facing(avoiding Death or Disaster)

b) If the house is not suitable, then at least must sleep in the most suitable bedroom.

c) If both above cannot be achieved, then you can only attempt to improve your luck by making sure you correct all the feng shui leaks in your house and enhance your own ba zi luck:-

URL: http://talk.geomancy.net

2. For all other family members:-

a) The house need not be suitable to them. All they need is to stay in the bedroom sector that is most favourable to them.

Anonymous wrote:
Sleeping position: S - death for me; longevity for him (feet face bedroom door - tomb position)

Priority from most important to least important:-

a) House suibility to breadwinner

b) Bedroom sector suitable to the person

c) Best placement of bed based on the shape an form placement

URL: http://www.geomancy.net/resources/theories/fs-bedroom.htm

d) Sleeping on the side of the bed that is closer to your favourable sector.

e) Bed position is least most important after the above points are taken care off. If at least b), c)and d) are ok, then even if e) is in the worst position, at least it will offset the impact.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research