Hi there

I am not sure whatfurther stepstotake in order to bring some harmony while organising my home, and where to start, due to possible "conflict of interests" of all house members (4 including myself). Year the house is built is 2000-2001 making it #7 and I believe west or (north-west) house(entrance door facing south/east).North - ffice:smarttags" />North East side of the house has got the most of the windows, at the same time main road with the drive way leading to the house, is on West - North West side of thehouse entrance.

Accordingly to the years of birth, my house is #4, sister's #9, father's # 2 & mother's #9. My main question would be: "What combination of 8 houses should I use in order to overcome possibleconflicting changes."fficeffice" />

Your kind assistance would be highly appreciated

Edited by Robert:

Here is a link to a new reference post that covers most of the Opposite Kua between Spouse / Family:-

URL: http://forum.geomancy.net/phpforum/article.php?bid=2&fid=4&mid=21124

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
I am not sure whatfurther stepstotake in order to bring some harmony while organising my home, and where to start, due to possible "conflict of interests" of all house members (4 including myself). Year the house is built is 2000-2001 making it #7 and I believe west or (north-west) house(entrance door facing south/east).North - src='http://www.geomancy.net/wbimages/smiles/icon_surprised.gif' width=15
height=15 border=0>ffice:smarttags" />North East side of the house has got the most of the windows, at the same time main road with the drive way leading to the house, is on West - North West side of thehouse entrance.

Actually, this question is not much different from the questions about the conflict of persons/different kua/opposite direction. Here are two links that you should read up to understand more about the give and take:-

URL: http://forum.geomancy.net/phpforum/article.php?bid=2&fid=1&mid=21041&new

URL: http://forum.geomancy.net/phpforum/article.php?bid=2&fid=1&mid=21109&new=

Everyone in the family will have different directions. However, what is important is that you first detemine who is the breadwinner, who is the spouse and the rest of the family.

1. The house must suit the breadwinner. The rest of the family member need not really have to be suitable to the house.

2. The master bedroom for the breadwinner should be given to the breadwinner's spouse if the two person are opposite Gua.

3. The rest of the family just needs to have a suitable bedroom for them to sleep in.

4. Each person should then be able to position their own bedroom according to the best bed position/work position/study position depending on who uses the room.

5. Colours scheme of the room should fit the single/both person using that room. Often two person will have a common element that can help improve the elements.

6. Common rooms like living room, you place furnitures that is in the best shapes and form rather than just to fit or suit any single person. As such rooms are shared between different people.

So if you use the above information, you should be able to easily apply the best placement for everyone.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research