Hi there, I am brand new to the
beautiful world of feng shui, and have a
question...
my massage therapist gave me a quick
analysis (I'm May 20th 1978)and my
boyfriend too (he's March 24th 1978),
and I had the compatibility assessment
done from this site to confirm what he
told me....both sources say that "The
binding elements to get the two parties
to be compatible or reduce conflict is
Metal."
What does this mean, and how can I
introduce metal between us? What kind of
metal? I think we really need it lol.
Thank you so much for your help on this,
and throughout this amazing website!!

Dear Anon,

Anonymous wrote:
Hi there, I am brand new to the beautiful world of feng shui, and have a question... my massage therapist gave me a quick analysis (I'm May 20th 1978)and my boyfriend too (he's March 24th 1978), and I had the compatibility assessment done from this site to confirm what he told me....both sources say that "The binding elements to get the two parties to be compatible or reduce conflict is Metal." What does this mean, and how can I introduce metal between us? What kind of metal? I think we really need it lol. Thank you so much for your help on this, and throughout this amazing website!!

Simply, everything in feng shui can be related to five elements. For example, colours, shapes, career, people around you etc. Here is an reference chart you can refer to:-

URL: http://talk.geomancy.net

So the most practical would be the colour and decor scheme within the room that both of you share. Having metal, means you can choose colour scheme (white/gold), circular shaped design/patterns etc. The more of these in common areas you share, you will be adding metal to help harmonise or reduce potential conflict between the two.

Hope that helps.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research