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Hi,

I am confuse with which should i use as guidance for comparison. elements? or analysis of clashes?

Me:
29 Apr 1981 between 9.00 a.m. to 10.59 a.m.
She:
19 Jul 1983 between 3.00 p.m. to 4.59 p.m.

I'm Weak FireVSShe's Strong Earth

The binding elements to get the two parties to be compatible or reduce conflict is Wood.

Analysis of Heavenly Stem Clashes for the two charts:-
No Heavenly Stem Clash found!

Analysis of Earthly Branches Clashes for the two charts:-
No Earthly Branch Clash or Earthly Branch Harm found!

No clashes found is great but our element are the opposite to each other.

Ihave weak fire so Earthis the most unfavourable and she has fire as the most Unfavourable element.

another comparison with other girl.

Me:
29 Apr 1981 between 9.00 a.m. to 10.59 a.m.
She:
02 Jan 1984 between 1.00 p.m. to 2.59 p.m.

I'm Weak Fire VS She's Strong Wood

The binding elements to get the two parties to be compatible or reduce conflict is Fire.

Analysis of Heavenly Stem Clashes for the two charts:-
* Heaven Stem Clash between year pillar (xin) & day pillar (yi).
* Heaven Stem Clash between day pillar (ding) & hour pillar (gui).

Analysis of Earthly Branches Clashes for the two charts:-
* Earthly Branch Clash between day pillar (chou) & day pillar (wei).
* Earthly Branch Clash between day pillar (chou) & hour pillar (wei).

4clashesfoundyet our element are the mostfavourable to each other.

Ihave weak fire so wood is the most favourable and she has fire as the most favourable element.

whois the more compatible? why?

Dear Erwin,

Frankly, I have no time to really go through the details you provided. However, I can quickly tell you that any chart that has too many clashes/harm tends to denote lots of quarrels or difference between the two person.

So the 1st person even though the element is oppositee, can still be resolved by having a binding element to help improve the relationship.

However, the 2nd person that has multiple clashes between the chart tends to more likely quarrel between or have major conflicts. Especially if there are major clashes or a total of 4 or more multiple clashes.

However, ultimately in any relationship, the human luck factor is also as important.

Warmest Regards
Robert Lee
GEOMANCY.NET - Center for Applied Feng Shui Research